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BrianMore than 10 years ago Brian Koo had a stroke which paralysed his left side, leaving him bedridden and unable to speak.

After almost a year in the hospital, Brian came home and fell into a deep depression, spending his days sitting in front of the TV.

“I couldn’t even bring myself to get dressed,” he recalls.

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JamesFour years ago, James Kulatkowski was living on the streets and was forced to eat from garbage bins.

Today James works as a handyman doing renovations and odd jobs and has a place to live. But he still struggles to make ends meet and buy groceries.

“Right now work is slow,” says James. “It's difficult to work steadily during this uncertain economy.”

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Carlos and his sonsWhen 46 year old Carlos and his two sons were targeted by Columbian guerillias, he escaped to Canada looking for safety and a new beginning.

“It was difficult leaving my whole life behind, but I truly feared if I didn’t leave, my sons and I would be killed,” says Carlos.

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MaggieWhen a tumour on four year old Maggie's optical nerve robbed her of her vision, her parents reached out to the Canadian National Institute for the Blind (CNIB), a United Way funded agency that supports those who are visually impaired.

"An early intervention specialist helped Maggie adjust to her blindness, and also gave her sensory and Braille activities to prepare her for school,” says Maggie’s mom Lisa. “A mobility specialist taught Maggie how to get around independently using a cane.”

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SurjitWhen Surjit’s husband died suddenly, she lost her zest for life and didn’t leave the house for more than four months.

“I felt depressed and didn’t want to face people,” she says. “All I wanted to do was stay home and stare at the walls.”

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HaileyLess than six months after the birth of his daughter Hailey, Steve was diagnosed with bipolar disorder, an illness that causes dramatic shifts in mood, energy, thinking and behaviour from mania to depression and back again.

Steve got the help he needed to stabilize his condition through a combination of counselling and medication.

“Mental illness doesn’t just impact the individual,” says Steve’s wife Trudi. “It impacts the entire family.”

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Donna and her sonWhen she was eight months pregnant, Donna Woods was beaten and strangled unconscious by her boyfriend. She lay on the floor clinically dead, without oxygen for more than four minutes. Miraculously the kicks of her unborn son revived her as paramedics arrived on the scene.

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DadrienDadrien Brown immigrated to Canada in 2009. He felt like an outsider, he was homesick for his birth country and he was unsure of what he wanted to do with his life. An acquaintance referred him to African Community Services (ACS), a United Way funded agency. ACS’s Youth Development Program and the Mentorship program helped Dadrien connect with the community while building his confidence and leadership skills.

“Now I have a sense of belonging and purpose,” says Dadrien. “The staff at ACS gave my life stability and directed me to resources that assisted me in going back to school for upgrading and getting into University. They gave me a foundation to build my life on.”

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JamesFor Jennifer Deathe and her husband Richard, the birth of their first child was a time filled with fear and emotional pain. Their son James was born with severe physical malformations to his legs, requiring the amputation of his left leg and extensive reconstructive surgery. Both parents felt devastated and helpless.

In a deep depression, Jennifer reached out to Caledon Parent-Child Centre, a United Way funded agency that provides support, resources and education that strengthens families and promotes the optimal development of children. In addition to medical referrals, the Centre provided Jennifer and Richard with emotional support and counselling to help them cope during their son’s surgery.

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Tong and IreneWhen he was employed as a chef, Tong Mai worked many long hours. But after retiring 10 years ago, he found himself sitting in front of the television all day. His wife, Irene, kept busy doing housework.

Tong grew restless and Irene longed for more, so they contacted Carefirst Seniors and Community Services Association, a United Way funded agency that provides programs and services to support, educate and enhance the lives of seniors in our community. Since connecting with Carefirst, the couple, who have been married more than 50 years, are having the time of their lives. Tong, 82, and Irene, 75, participate in Tai Chi, English classes, Karaoke, and computer training. They have expanded their social network and enjoy social outings and events, while living an independent, healthy and active lifestyle.

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JenniferJennifer Kilchenmann, 27, has always enjoyed an active lifestyle, despite having just 6 per cent vision in her left eye and 60 per cent vision in her right. She works out at the gym, enjoys spending time with her boyfriend, and socializes with friends and family. However, when looking for work, she often felt stigmatized by potential employers who couldn’t see beyond her visual impairment.

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AaliyahTen-year-old Aaliyah Parks has Autism Spectrum Disorder, a neurological disorder that affects the functioning of the brain. It is also a developmental disability where individuals have difficulties communicating and relating to others. Aaliyah must work hard to learn social skills that come naturally to most of her peers.

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Just as a blank canvas is a potential masterpiece for an artist, a child’s dreams can represent infinite possibilities. Supported in part through a United Way neighbourhood development grant to the Boys and Girls Club of Peel, a group of Mississauga children created a beautiful neighbourhood mural that represents hope and happiness.

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RonJoining the growing number of people unemployed due to the recession was difficult for Ron Carnwell, 56. So much of his
self-esteem and pride was tied to working. Struggling with feelings of confusion, hurt and betrayal, Ron contacted Family Services Peel (FSP), a United Way funded agency.

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SandraAfter researching Canada, Sandra Bocarro felt it would be an ideal place to immigrate and raise a family. She arrived in 2004. But despite being a highly educated professional, she had difficulty finding employment. She had always lived comfortably in her homeland but now she was struggling to make ends meet and keep food on the table.

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TheresaTheresa Gyampah was being verbally, emotionally and physically abused by her husband who threatened to have her deported if she ever left him. As a newcomer to Canada, she didn’t know where to turn or who to trust. After enduring years of abuse, fearing for her life and worried about how her children were being affected, Theresa called a helpline and was referred to a local shelter.

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RobinRobin Persaud had lost his job, separated from his wife and children, and become homeless. Diagnosed with depression and a mood disorder, he had attempted suicide twice but couldn’t afford the medication he needed to get well.

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TroyAt age 9 Troy Taylor felt a void in his life. His parents had separated when he was 4 and he had gone several years without a consistent male role model. As a result, he started to put less effort into his schooling and didn’t have much faith or trust in commitments by male authority figures.

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Antoinette“It’s amazing how something that happened to me that was so horrible actually turned out for the best,” says 33-year-old Antoinette Antoine, reflecting on her past.

Antoinette’s childhood memories are not the type one treasures.

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Dawon“Never in my wildest dreams did I imagine that I’d ever have to use a food bank,” says Dawson Reid, 55. But when the plant where he worked stopped production, Dawson lost his job.

“I’ve been working since I was 18. But now with the economy being what it is, it’s hard to find a job,” he says.

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JoshuaA day after he was born in January 2002, Joshua Roul was diagnosed with nerve damage to his left shoulder as the result of a difficult delivery. As serious as this situation was, it paled in comparison to what happened next.

“I had been heavily medicated due to complications because of the difficulty of the birth, and did not realize that there was something not quite right with his eyes until he was two days old,” explained Joshua’s mother, Jodi Roul.

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BennetaIn 2006, 39-year-old Benneta Solomon, her 41-year-old husband Boby and their two children aged 3 and 12, immigrated to Canada looking for an improved quality of life and more opportunities.

Boby found work within a couple of months, but Benneta was not as lucky. She had been an electronic engineer in India and was hoping to find similar employment in Canada. Despite sending out many resumes, she did not receive a single call for an interview. With only one income, the family struggled.

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CheIn 2003, 78-year-old Che Kin Cheng and his wife Siuyan, 72, had been married for more than 50 years. They had worked hard all their lives, raised three children, and were enjoying travelling during their retirement. However, their journey together would be cut short, when Siuyan was diagnosed with cancer.

“After my wife became ill, she needed a lot of rest,” says Che. “We couldn’t travel much anymore.”

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Nolan and NatIn April 2002, 6-year-old Nolan Cattell's father died of a brain tumour. With no siblings or relatives living locally, Nolan and his mother, JoAnn, were on their own.

JoAnn wanted her only child to have a male role model - someone he could learn from and have fun with while maturing. She contacted a United Way-funded agency that placed Nolan in a group program in 2003 where he could interact with other children in his single-parent situation. The ultimate goal of the program was to match the children to adult role models. Over the course of the program, the agency introduced Nolan to a young man named Nat Marchica and the two were officially matched in 2005.

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PaulPaul Williams has been participating in the Boys and Girls Club of Peel program in his McHardy Court neighbourhood since he was 14. Now at 19, he is a member of his neighbourhood Youth Council.

The Youth Council, funded through United Way’s Neighbourhood Development grants, empowers youth to engage residents in working together to make their neighbourhood a clean, safe and healthy place for everyone.

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RobertWhen he was 22, Robert Ditchburn lost touch with reality. He was consumed with thoughts that his coworkers were talking about him behind his back and that his employer was trying to harm him.

Alarmed by Robert's behaviour, his father took him to the hospital, where he was diagnosed with paranoid schizophrenia and given medication. Robert had joined the ranks of the 1 in 5 people in Canada who will personally experience a mental illness.

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VanessaThirty-one-year-old Vanessa Ramnarine, her husband Tony, and their two daughters Eva, 6, and Amy, 4, have always been a tight-knit family with strong family values. When a flyer from her daughter’s school asked for participants for its eight-week Family and Schools Together (F&ST) program, Vanessa was all for it. That’s because it offered the chance for parents, children, social service professionals, community volunteers and school staff to meet at school for dinner and quality family time.

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